Single is Awesome....

ppl have been searching for the feeling of completion and real beauty of happiness...but found none..., we had tried everything from material things, career, n people, but all those things have made us lost in the cosmic of confusion, disappointments , emptiness and unbearable sorrows..

we did try our best to live..to kept our head high, to laugh about it or even tell jokes about it.., as long as we could breathe and lives...to stay a float..but the more we struggle the more it pulled us under..and we cant breathe anymore..it's too hard...

in this hectic world, ironically we lives as lonely human being...single ppl think they should be married to ease the loneliness inside and married ppl wondered why they still can feels lonely in their castle of marriage..

as single, we are so hard to judge and blame our selves for still being single.. we chose to be single bcs there is no one that is good enough for us and we definitely dont want to marry a mediocre person...we seek the best quality

a perfection that only God can met our requirements..

single ppl feels pity on married ppl.., bcs they seems or pretends to be happy but they re bound legally and spiritually by the institution called marriage..which is limited their freedom and self actualization..

but still the single envy them bcs married women have those things that they dont have yet.." recognition from society"..our culture taught us that a perfect women is the one that married...., a cinderella syndrome that has been haunted women for generations.

single or married..we are facing the same problems of insecurity..in fact research told us that married women have higher insecurity than single women.., bcs single women have their own career, money, self-actualization, independence, freedom, and they can take a good care of them self...while married women re busy with domestic chores and sometimes domestic violence, single women re busy to have a good time of her life..

as single, we are spoiled by our freedom..., we underestimate the marriage life in the way of thinking than we can cope it easily...we re so dying to rush into marriage life, but we forgot to ask our selves a very important questions.." are we ready to sacrifice all ? " and "do we really want to get marry?"

being single is the greatest blessing and an awesome experience… just love and enjoy it…

single is time to learn about our selves, to give more to others and to focus on developing our selves...

just be productive, keep on growing, be happy n content..

bcs happiness is not a matter of having a men in ur life, but happiness comes by our decision to be happy every single day.

and contentment comes from within.

single or married..., make sure that u lives in grateful attitude..

being single... the best time in life...

My Friend "SUSI"

Susi is my close friend from my previous company, two things that i'd notice when the first time i met her, she's so vibrate and open.., she love to laugh and make ppl laughs.
despite all pains caused from her previous love relationship, she never quit to hope..

her long tiring love for a guy called "Super Jerk" has darkened her days but not her spirit and hope, i had watched her struggle to let go, and she did. her past didnt stop her to believe for someone better. she even didnt hesitate and didnt stop for post trauma experience which makes ppl to avoid and shut off every potential relationships. one thing that i learned from her, she didnt waste time to grief.

Her passion for every opportunity to find her true love, her determination and bravery efforts have made me smiled, even astonished, mostly confused.:) but deep down inside i admired her courage.

however, we often have debates about that, in my logical skeptic mind i disagreed with her irrational thinking. (she called it "Hope", i saw it as "another potential disappointments").

That was last year.

today she's planning her wedding. Her hope has becoming reality. Finally she met her Prince. at the end of last year she met someone better, a men that love and adore her. Her true love. she's living a hope come true. so hope really works after all.

Her experience has radically changed me.
she said to me. ' whatever happens dont quit to hope".

in my own words, " Hope will find love, just dont stop hope"

LIFE TOO SHORT TO BE LITTLE

Often we allow ourselves to be upset by small things that we
should forget about at once. Perhaps someone we helped has
proven ungrateful, someone we believed to be a friend has
spoken ill of us, some regard we thought we deserved has
been denied to us.

We feel such disappointment so strongly that we can no longer
work, or even sleep.

We lose many irreplaceable hours brooding over grievances
that in a year's time will be forgotten by us and everybody
else. Let us devote our lives to worthwhile feelings and
actions, to great thoughts, real affections and enduring
actions for others. Life is too short to be litle.

Reality of love (1)

We know that Love hurts…
but if we love until it hurts
then there ever will be no more hurts
only LOVE..

-Mother Theresa

i really loves those beautiful words, i believe that love brings death to our carnality of mind so it can brings life to our spiritual life, and Mother Theresa's life is a living proof. that love never fails and always wins.

Reality Bites, so what.

life is full of sudden surprises, sometimes it makes us smile and laugh, sometimes it hit us to the core, and it hurts.

but courage is a divine power to makes us understand and move forward.

reality bites..i know, been there n done that..still im learning, but one thing i know for sure, in the end of the day..i will be grateful for every single thing that life has brought me.

reality bites, so what.