My Friend "SUSI"

Susi is my close friend from my previous company, two things that i'd notice when the first time i met her, she's so vibrate and open.., she love to laugh and make ppl laughs.
despite all pains caused from her previous love relationship, she never quit to hope..

her long tiring love for a guy called "Super Jerk" has darkened her days but not her spirit and hope, i had watched her struggle to let go, and she did. her past didnt stop her to believe for someone better. she even didnt hesitate and didnt stop for post trauma experience which makes ppl to avoid and shut off every potential relationships. one thing that i learned from her, she didnt waste time to grief.

Her passion for every opportunity to find her true love, her determination and bravery efforts have made me smiled, even astonished, mostly confused.:) but deep down inside i admired her courage.

however, we often have debates about that, in my logical skeptic mind i disagreed with her irrational thinking. (she called it "Hope", i saw it as "another potential disappointments").

That was last year.

today she's planning her wedding. Her hope has becoming reality. Finally she met her Prince. at the end of last year she met someone better, a men that love and adore her. Her true love. she's living a hope come true. so hope really works after all.

Her experience has radically changed me.
she said to me. ' whatever happens dont quit to hope".

in my own words, " Hope will find love, just dont stop hope"

LIFE TOO SHORT TO BE LITTLE

Often we allow ourselves to be upset by small things that we
should forget about at once. Perhaps someone we helped has
proven ungrateful, someone we believed to be a friend has
spoken ill of us, some regard we thought we deserved has
been denied to us.

We feel such disappointment so strongly that we can no longer
work, or even sleep.

We lose many irreplaceable hours brooding over grievances
that in a year's time will be forgotten by us and everybody
else. Let us devote our lives to worthwhile feelings and
actions, to great thoughts, real affections and enduring
actions for others. Life is too short to be litle.

Reality of love (1)

We know that Love hurts…
but if we love until it hurts
then there ever will be no more hurts
only LOVE..

-Mother Theresa

i really loves those beautiful words, i believe that love brings death to our carnality of mind so it can brings life to our spiritual life, and Mother Theresa's life is a living proof. that love never fails and always wins.

Reality Bites, so what.

life is full of sudden surprises, sometimes it makes us smile and laugh, sometimes it hit us to the core, and it hurts.

but courage is a divine power to makes us understand and move forward.

reality bites..i know, been there n done that..still im learning, but one thing i know for sure, in the end of the day..i will be grateful for every single thing that life has brought me.

reality bites, so what.