Thursday, September 13, 2007

Single is Awesome....

ppl have been searching for the feeling of completion and real beauty of happiness...but found none..., we had tried everything from material things, career, n people, but all those things have made us lost in the cosmic of confusion, disappointments , emptiness and unbearable sorrows..

we did try our best to live..to kept our head high, to laugh about it or even tell jokes about it.., as long as we could breathe and lives...to stay a float..but the more we struggle the more it pulled us under..and we cant breathe anymore..it's too hard...

in this hectic world, ironically we lives as lonely human being...single ppl think they should be married to ease the loneliness inside and married ppl wondered why they still can feels lonely in their castle of marriage..

as single, we are so hard to judge and blame our selves for still being single.. we chose to be single bcs there is no one that is good enough for us and we definitely dont want to marry a mediocre person...we seek the best quality
a perfection that only God can met our requirements..

single ppl feels pity on married ppl.., bcs they seems or pretends to be happy but they re bound legally and spiritually by the institution called marriage..which is limited their freedom and self actualization..

but still the single envy them bcs married women have those things that they dont have yet.." recognition from society"..our culture taught us that a perfect women is the one that married...., a cinderella syndrome that has been haunted women for generations.

single or married..we are facing the same problems of insecurity..in fact research told us that married women have higher insecurity than single women.., bcs single women have their own career, money, self-actualization, independence, freedom, and they can take a good care of them self...while married women re busy with domestic chores and sometimes domestic violence, single women re busy to have a good time of her life..

as single, we are spoiled by our freedom..., we underestimate the marriage life in the way of thinking than we can cope it easily...we re so dying to rush into marriage life, but we forgot to ask our selves a very important questions.." are we ready to sacrifice all ? " and "do we really want to get marry?"

being single is the greatest blessing and an awesome experience… just love and enjoy it…
single is time to learn about our selves, to give more to others and to focus on developing our selves...
just be productive, keep on growing, be happy n content..
bcs happiness is not a matter of having a men in ur life, but happiness comes by our decision to be happy every single day.
and contentment comes from within.
single or married..., make sure that u lives in grateful attitude..
being single... the best time in life...